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Book Review: Women's Anatomy of Arousal by Sheri Winston CNM, RN, BSN, LMT
Book review Cindy Scharkey 1/10/24 Book review Cindy Scharkey 1/10/24

Book Review: Women's Anatomy of Arousal by Sheri Winston CNM, RN, BSN, LMT

If you have a desire to explore taking your pleasure to the next level, this book is for you.

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Book Review: Better Sex Through Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire, by Lori Brotto, PhD.
Book review Cindy Scharkey 2/8/22 Book review Cindy Scharkey 2/8/22

Book Review: Better Sex Through Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire, by Lori Brotto, PhD.

Do you want to know how sexual desire works and how it can be cultivated? Dr. Lori Brotto shares the research-based truths about desire that might literally transform your sex life!

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Understanding Your Desire Style For Better Sex
Sex, Communication Cindy Scharkey 2/28/20 Sex, Communication Cindy Scharkey 2/28/20

Understanding Your Desire Style For Better Sex

If more couples understood the concept of desire styles, there could be a lot less conflict and a lot more sex!

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Are There Benefits To Morning Sex?
Sex Cindy Scharkey 12/1/19 Sex Cindy Scharkey 12/1/19

Are There Benefits To Morning Sex?

Testosterone and estrogen levels are higher in the morning.

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Desire Styles
Sex Cindy Scharkey 6/5/19 Sex Cindy Scharkey 6/5/19

Desire Styles

The truth about desire is that there is more than one style or pattern.


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Book Review: Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D
Book review Cindy Scharkey 6/18/18 Book review Cindy Scharkey 6/18/18

Book Review: Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D

Come As You Are is one of the best books I have read on women and sex.

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NEW EPISODE πŸŽ™οΈ Slippery When Wet: Shower sëxgs for beginners. 
From logistics on positioning, to setting the stage before you step in - in this episode I talk you through the basics on how to add shower sëxgs to your intimacy repertoire. S
Did you catch that? I asked @sexologywithcatriona to repeat this when she said it on the podcast. 

We need to focus on “our body” not our partner’s body. 

Are you doing that? 
Allowing yourself “inward attention?”
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Presence and Pleasure

Do you struggle to be present in your body and mind in the bedroom? It’s difficult to experience pleasure when your brain is busy, busy, busy. 

Listen in to my conversation with @sexologywithcatriona on the podcast this

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